Thought about this today. Sometimes I have no clue what gear I'm in. Usually when I'm downshifting. Shifting up doesn't really matter because I go by the RPM's of the motor, but when I'm slowing down I usually have to get to neutral to know where I'm at.
I guess I never really gave it any thought.
When you come to a stop,click down until it won't go anymore.
If you don't have to stop,click up or down until the motor is happy.
Most times no, I just go by sound and how it pulls. All these questions about when to shift to what gear I find a little baffling. It's simple, if it sounds like it needs another gear, give it one. If it sounds like it's in to high a gear, take one.