That makes 8 years running that they haven't fixed the problem (my 2002 was the same). I went with 91965-98. You will need to get something with arms that move the mirror outboard so you can see past yourself.
I went with the mirrors off a Sportster, they were a little taller. Just enouh to see over my shoulders.
+1 on the Sportster mirrors. I had a spare set from my Sporty after I put long stem mirrors on it. The Sportster mirrors are exactly the same mirror with a longer stem.
Adjustment might help. It might improve by turning the stalks so the upper-most portion (where it attaches to the mirror) is pointing straight back. If you extend an imaginary line beyond the upper-most portion of the stalk, it would be parallel to the center line of the bike. I still get some arm and elbow in the mirrors but this position seemed to minimize it.