I must be missing something. The "rubber trim" on my windshield has no issues at all. Now for the brief (and I mean brief) time I had one of the Windsplitter on the bike (I like to call it the Windtunnel), the rubber was all over the place, looked like sh*t. Changed to the Windvest, and no problems at all.
the chrome and black rim pieces HD sells will eat up the paint on your fairing. A bunch of the guys at roadglide.org swear by xcycletrim.com they have pieces for the windshield and the fairing. The guys over there who use it say it hasn't budged and there's no glue invovled....