Alright well it took a about a few days of research and I ordered the other 280 series connector said to be the the one from another member on here but that was not right as it was about twice the size. Turns out the connector for the siren is a 3 cavity Delphi 12162182 Metri-pack 150.2 female connector. The mate to that connector was never actually tooled up for production by Delphi. So after alot of calls and emails I have found the one company out there that made this male connector that we have all been looking for!
http://www.casperselectronics.com/st...oducts_id=1293

 

Those little inline automotive splices worked really good too.

 

yea that may work but for how long will that connection be 100%. See im very meticulous with the way I do work on my bike so its either done to the standard the factory would have done it or I wont do it at all.