Oil cooler, Baker 1.5 oil pan,DEI Titanium exhaust pipe wrap, proper tuner/ dyno tune. Take yer pick.

 

I may give those a try although removing the cat helped with heat reduction but my wife still gets some heat on her right leg from the exhaust.

 

I had that "tuner" on my '08 FLHT Stage 2. Went through two of them in fairly short order. They simply were not reliable, and not even good as a paperweight.. That surprised me, as I've had their products in the past that were good quality. Got a Power Commander Six from Fuel Moto. Problem solved. Give them a call, might be able to help.

 

Ceramic coat the exhaust. You can send them out, or do it yourself with a kit from Tech Line products.

 

Way too simple and logical.

 

I avoid riding in even small towns, much less a city or metro area, not because of the heat, but because it’s a good place to lose a leg!

 

I was gonna say..." ya know those lowers create a dead air space right around where your leg and the exhaust are". I take them off just like rigid said but I keep a set of soft lowers in the bag in case I get caught in the rain. They do a decent job of deflecting the water from your legs and road grime from getting the entire bike filthy.

 

Everyone has an opinion on which tuner is best, and some people will even tell you that anything other than the one they chose is junk.
I've had an extremely good experience with the V&H FP3 on 2 Ultras now. I like the ability to change the tune by myself immediately when I change something on the bike, the autotune feature is 'good' (but not perfect), and I like the large selection of gauges on the app, as I keep my phone on the handlebars. Customer service has been very responsive when I did need advice or service. I'm sure there are many other brands that work well, too.

 

Crotch coolers work! I had them on my 2002 UltraClassic.

 

I sure hope you don't wear shorts while riding. Huge difference. When you have an ICE between your legs it's gonna put off a lot of heat and add summer temps and it's nasty.