Find out if they are members of this forum. Then point them toward the post with your name as your screen name and your location. That should solve the problem of receiving the unwelcome invitations.

 

If i was said club member, I would probably whoop your *** for posting this thread.

 

Go, check it out! You can always say no if they ever even ask you to join (this could just be a "help us drink some beer" thing). Sheesh. Be flattered.

 

Enter at your own risk. Of course it depends on the MC but be aware. Just because you are friends of these two members does not mean you are friends with other members. You don't hold a patch so you are fair game to any member who decides he doesn't like the way you look. If that happens in the club house good luck to you. Again depending on the club.

 

Yawn!

 

first of all congratulations some of us have waited all of our lives for an invite from a real live MC. Just kidding-

Don't take this the wrong way, but if you felt the need as an adult male to ask this question my advice would be to skip it.

Honestly treat it like every other invite in life. If you don't want to go say sorry man totally busy. I am 100% certain that as grown men they won't feel spurned or sad.

 

Back at you.

 

Had a similar situation with a local ol club. They treated my wife and I like long lost friends. Been to parties and am always made to feel welcome at the clubhouse. There was never any pressure to join or problems if I didn't. Joining a club at my age just makes no sense to me but I actually enjoyed the company. Always show respect. Never show fear. Offer no opinions concerning club members or club business. Don't even mention other clubs. Have a nice day.

 

I us the phrase that I not conformable and don't like to congregate but thanks.

 

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