Just do a Google search for gay clubs in your area and that should point you in the right direction.

 

True story OP, this might help you.... I used to work in this Indiana city away from home; some weekends I didn't get back home every weekend so we'd do poker runs, hit the watering holes, etc. So, one day I was feeling frisky after a run, a few cold ones and was tooling down the street where the local clubhouse was for a very well known midwest club. Sitting out front was a member and his lady, I did a uturn and pulled up out front, backed my bike in, got off the bike and asked the dude if he "had any cold beers in there". he just looked at me, finally started laughing and said if you got ***** that big, come in and have a beer! He was an officer of the club, great guy I got to know pretty well. Most that chapter were good guys with the exception of a few young ones trying to prove a point. After that I frequented the house quite a bit during my stay in that city.... That was a long time ago and like I said, I had a few beers that day. Another time it might have been different but it was all good that day.... Good memories!

 

Hey English, I think you'll be just fine. It's a Vespa club right?

 

I've been working with a couple of guys for the last year and a half that are members of an mc. They have asked me stop by numerous times and I have always begged off for one reason or another. I like these guys and work well with them but don't want their life style. What would you do?

 

Thank them for the offer and respectfully decline.

 

go ahead... make it interesting, go in a full SOA ensemble.

 

Tell them thanks but it just isn't my thing.

 

The guys I work with would see the humor, don't know about the rest of the guys.

 

Go to the clubhouse. What can it hurt? Might just have some fun. Just because you go doesn't mean that you have to start living the "lifestyle"? Whatever that means.

 

Wear a conspicuous wire and keep saying "could you repeat that louder" whenever you talk to someone.