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#22
12-08-2011 | 07:22 PM
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From: PA
Kinda, but really reminds me of opie's home situation before his wife was gunned down!!......To the OP, if he wasn't in a club there wouldn't be a problem, just sayin!!
#23
12-08-2011 | 07:49 PM
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Joined: Dec 2008
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From: Central FL
I have a brother that has a huge family problem. His wife basically said he has to get rid of his bike and walk away from the club or she is gone and will take the 2 kids with her. Causing a family break up. He loves his kids so much but the bike and club are a huge part of his Life and has 20yrs in. Been with her for 10. The reason is she feel second to the bike and the club. They can't seem to compromise. What would you all do? Me I don't take ultimatums well.
#24
12-08-2011 | 09:39 PM
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From: Niles Canyon Ca.
I have a brother that has a huge family problem. His wife basically said he has to get rid of his bike and walk away from the club or she is gone and will take the 2 kids with her. Causing a family break up. He loves his kids so much but the bike and club are a huge part of his Life and has 20yrs in. Been with her for 10. The reason is she feel second to the bike and the club. They can't seem to compromise. What would you all do? Me I don't take ultimatums well.
#26
12-09-2011 | 08:36 AM
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From: CA
I've heard from guys in similar situations, who bend to their wife's will to immediately avoid divorce, only to continue a relationship that is destined to fail regardless. Then 10 years later the guy is left with regret and and anger against himself saying, "I should have just called it quits and did what I wanted to do".
#27
12-09-2011 | 08:54 AM
I understand it's his club brother, that is plainly apparent from the original post. The question is what would I do in this circumstance. I would stay out of my brother's marital affairs and let them sort this out without my meddling, pressuring, or my individual or club interference.
Last edited by Longhair4life; 12-09-2011 at 09:05 AM.
#28
12-09-2011 | 09:11 AM
No names or details were mentioned. Just a general description of what is happening so this can be seen as more of a general question for others who may be in the same situation. Like I said it happens on a regular basis. Some opinions on this matter may help other people.
#29
12-09-2011 | 09:58 AM
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Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 277
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From: Wilmington, NC
He was in the club when they met...He had a scoot when they met...I assume. If that's the case, Then my guess would be it's not about the club or the bike. Next it will be the Tuesday night poker game or some other man time he enjoys.
#30
12-09-2011 | 10:09 AM
Good point.