Jesse James--biker dude screws up!
#92
04-10-2010, 08:23 AM
I wasn't suggesting that some men don't have honor in keeping a promise .. Wasn't even remotely suggesting that they don't.
What I was questioning was .. What men don't have a strong addiction to sex? ... whether it be with their wives or significant others. It's a well documented fact that men (generally speaking, of course) have a heightened sex drive .. Men have a stronger sex drive that lasts much later in life .. and it's actually quite normal .. The instinct to procreate or at least putting in their practice rounds is very strong ..... but come to think of it .. men are never referred to nympho's ... Whereas, women who have a strong sex drive are .. I wonder why that is?
What I was questioning was .. What men don't have a strong addiction to sex? ... whether it be with their wives or significant others. It's a well documented fact that men (generally speaking, of course) have a heightened sex drive .. Men have a stronger sex drive that lasts much later in life .. and it's actually quite normal .. The instinct to procreate or at least putting in their practice rounds is very strong ..... but come to think of it .. men are never referred to nympho's ... Whereas, women who have a strong sex drive are .. I wonder why that is?
#94
04-11-2010, 07:03 AM
Oh I absolutely agree with you that not all men are cheaters...and I am not saying it's right...I am just saying I believe the guys who are completely faithful are either:
A. In a great marriage, where the wife understands that husbands needs attention too, is fun to be around and hang out with, etc. They picked a compatible woman and they have found what works.
B. Miserable, and wish they had taken the time to find the wife described in A. They will either cheat, divorce eventually, or be miserable forever.
I have some married friends who cheat, and some married friends who are so happy it is scary. The common catalyst of the faithful marriages is spousal attention. Not just sexually, but the happy ones are the ones who are best friends and love to be around each other, no matter what they are doing.
The cheaters are the ones who's wives devote attention 100% to the kids, and the hubby's are just sperm donors and financiers. It wasn't always like that, but they are both guilty of letting it slip away. Maybe it was so easy because they were not as compatible as they thought. I am thinking Sandra and jesse are thinking they are not as compatible as they thought.
all IMHO of course!!!
A. In a great marriage, where the wife understands that husbands needs attention too, is fun to be around and hang out with, etc. They picked a compatible woman and they have found what works.
B. Miserable, and wish they had taken the time to find the wife described in A. They will either cheat, divorce eventually, or be miserable forever.
I have some married friends who cheat, and some married friends who are so happy it is scary. The common catalyst of the faithful marriages is spousal attention. Not just sexually, but the happy ones are the ones who are best friends and love to be around each other, no matter what they are doing.
The cheaters are the ones who's wives devote attention 100% to the kids, and the hubby's are just sperm donors and financiers. It wasn't always like that, but they are both guilty of letting it slip away. Maybe it was so easy because they were not as compatible as they thought. I am thinking Sandra and jesse are thinking they are not as compatible as they thought.
all IMHO of course!!!
#97
04-11-2010, 07:16 PM
