TOAK, The Thread of All Knowledge Part XI
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#5633
Divorce... I never figured the details, but a quick tally of monthly support and pension loss, not including the house re-fi to cover her share of it and a big visa bill I got stuck with, is just a little shy of 100 grand every 4 years. The house would put it a fair amount over 100. Also gave up half my 401 at the time. Was it worth it? Hell yea.
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#5636
cheaper to keep her....unless she gets a restraining order, forces you out (even thou the restraining order was bullshit,never laid a glove on her)then you really have no choice.....the state always takes the womans side ven leans that way when it comes to custody.......Now I keep a decent home relatively clean, and she lives like a pig with children not even tending too yard work ....last look (sartelite view ) showed what looked like an unkept yard and overgrown everything......a real shame.
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#5639
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It has its ups and downs, but definitely more ups than downs. 20 years this year.