agreed on fixing it, i can let go of my handle bars and light a cigarette at 90 mph + on mine, only wobble i ever get is hands off the bars @ 20mph on a chitty road by my house. you have a larger problem sir

 

Could be spoke issue... They can be very touchy, and especially on a new bike like your 09. Mine had a wobble which I fixed with some adjustment to the spokes. Smooth now.

 

ok holy crap now i am starting to worry.... i thought this was a common issue, how do i find out if its the wheel or not?

 

I have a steering damper.
Just bought a 1000 GSX-R one and made my own bracket with a relocation turn signal kit.