Not sure what Softail you are talking about, but my FatBoy has as much legroom as my Dyna, which is much more than my 1200C.
With the 'cruise arms' I have installed on my Softail the legroom is increased even more, up to the point where I can extend my legs all the way out (34" inseam) and lay the heels of my boots on the pegs.
1200C;
Softail FatBoy;
Dyna Wideglide;
OFG, Those are all great looking bikes.
It is just my personal observaton that I feel more cramped with the footboard and lower seat height of the touring and softies. - especially after extending my 1200C controls 5" forward.
Now the Wide Glide is another story. For my 37" legs, easily the most comfortable Harley & will be my next bike.
Just telling the OP Life is short, so "do it now"
With those apes that would be about the same for me. How much where they asking for that Nightster?
If you where referring to my post the dealer wanted 16880 USD (132000 swedish kroner). Yes the bike is for sale in Sweden :-)
Tested a stock Iron a couple a weeks ago. So it had the stock bars and mid footcontrols. I liked it but liked the apes and forwards on the nightster better. Wish I could try riding the nightster with apes.
I'm 6'2" 205 lbs and my Sporty fits fine with forward controls and 10" mini-apes. Extending the forwards an inch or two would be a bit more comfortable but haven't yet found a kit for the older sportys.