I'm starting to think that might be a better way to go. I have a friend that could paint a primed spolier for me quick once I got it to him. It'd probably be quicker to have him order the paint from Harley than to wait for them to do it if the average wait time is as long as it seems.
Well an update on my situation. My fender came in last Fri and the bike is in now getting it mounted. It didn't take anywhere near as long as first anticipated.
I work in P&A at a local dealer and I can confirm that painted parts generally talke anywhere from 6 to 8 weeks to arrive. If your P&A professional does their job correctly, they can obtain the info right off the computer telling them the anticipated lead time for any part. But if you happen to need current model year painted parts odds are they're in stock and will arrive in 3-5 days.