traveler -- that's definitely an idea, and I think doing it carefully I might be ok, but I'd also be afraid of stressing any welds. The fender is being delivered today so I'll know for sure if any bending/grinding is even necessary. It might not be.
AFMM3 -- That link is a great resource thanks for posting it. Now I might be reading it incorrectly so tell me if I'm wrong here...... but according to my interpretation, my 2008 Road King rear fender can handle a max tire size of 160mm before modifications are necessary. And my Wide Glide has a 160mm rear.
SURFOR Chop -- you're right I completely ignored the fact that those guys have been there, done that.... I should spend some time reading their threads. Thanks man.