Hatchet, I to am sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my wife of 19 years (was with her for 25) a few years back to breast cancer, so I know a little of what you are experiencing. Every one is different in how they deal, so there is no way to give advice. But as many here have said, keep your family and friends close and stay busy if you can. I can say that "Time" will help, but only help will it do. The pain and loss for me anyway is still there, just not as prominent on a daily basis. You will go through many different stages, but that is good. It will help you deal with all of it. Hang in there man. My prayers are with you.
and "Amen" to the prayer already lifted up here on this post.
I don't know you, but I feel the pain through your words. I pray that time will quickly replace your sorrow with the many wonderful memories that you all created over the years.