HUGE mistake involving wife...
#281
08-20-2010, 11:22 AM
Hey Twiggyaz; Probably a lot of guys would pass you and then pull off faking a gas problem just to get a ride with you now that we know. LOL. Not me of course, I am 69 and been married for 51 years to the same woman, and I sure don't want to mess that up. She is still the best thing that ever happened to me.
Wait a minute...you just gave me an idea!!
Congrats on that amazing 51 years.
#282
08-20-2010, 11:25 AM
Originally Posted by TwiggyAZ 
Here's a no no in my book. An ex boyfriend emailed me and said...hey...come give me a ride on your new Harley. I emailed back and said...LOL, are you nuts...that's like asking me to come have sex with you...get the F outta here dude!! Not only never...but freaking never!
This is ok. Riding back from a rally, guy breaks down, I stop to help, he needs gas...I ride him to gas station and back.
Seems simple enough to me...but each to their own!
Here's a no no in my book. An ex boyfriend emailed me and said...hey...come give me a ride on your new Harley. I emailed back and said...LOL, are you nuts...that's like asking me to come have sex with you...get the F outta here dude!! Not only never...but freaking never!
This is ok. Riding back from a rally, guy breaks down, I stop to help, he needs gas...I ride him to gas station and back.
Seems simple enough to me...but each to their own!
Ahhhhh, that would be a no!!!
#283
08-20-2010, 11:44 AM
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This is what your wife is pissed about, some guys go out looking to cheat, but lots just start out meeting up with an old friend. You screwed up big time. If you don't want to lose your scoot in a divorce, never ever call or communicate with your old acquaintance again, your wife would never settle until she wins your ride in court and then sets it on fire.
Sorry - I'm siding with the OP. I don't see the big deal. If your wife has so little trust in you that she can't tolerate someone else being on the bike for 5 minutes perhaps there's other issues to deal with?
It's not like he took her out to the back roads after a night of drinking.
It's like y'all are saying you aren't allowed to have any friends that aren't dudes. Weird.
#284
08-20-2010, 02:56 PM
Sorry - I'm siding with the OP. I don't see the big deal. If your wife has so little trust in you that she can't tolerate someone else being on the bike for 5 minutes perhaps there's other issues to deal with?
It's not like he took her out to the back roads after a night of drinking.
It's like y'all are saying you aren't allowed to have any friends that aren't dudes. Weird.
It's not like he took her out to the back roads after a night of drinking.
It's like y'all are saying you aren't allowed to have any friends that aren't dudes. Weird.
I see it as a matter of you disrespecting her. Big difference.
She might not worry about trusting you, she might be pissed that you disrespected her.
Why did you marry her? You gave up being single to do that.
#285
08-20-2010, 03:30 PM
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The last thing that a loving & faithful partner wants is to be accused of something that they would never, nor have ever done. And that's what it sounds like happened here.
NOW, if OP is a reputed cheating b*stard who makes a habit of using the old, "she-needed-a-ride" excuse to bang women on the side, then never mind everything I wrote previously!
#286
08-20-2010, 04:38 PM
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#287
08-20-2010, 05:20 PM
The last thing that a loving & faithful partner wants is to be accused of something that they would never, nor have ever done. And that's what it sounds like happened here.
"Sounds like" doesn't mean "for sure what happenned".
Dude carting around another woman on his wife's sacred spot, and you imply that the wife has some sort of problem. "She's accusing him I tell ya!" LOL
"It was only a half a block, I was acting saintly".
Originally Posted by AnotherBlackSG
Yep, makes sense! Now, would that also work for me if a too-drunk-to-drive girl in a bar asked for a ride home??
Yep, makes sense! Now, would that also work for me if a too-drunk-to-drive girl in a bar asked for a ride home??
Back of my bike will never again see a drunk passenger.
I didn't mind the "reach arounds" at stop lights, but the unpredictable leans were more than I ever will allow happen again. Holy Crap!
#288
08-20-2010, 10:38 PM
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#289
08-20-2010, 10:41 PM
Road Captain
Ummmm.... I HAVE bungeed a passenger before (falling asleep not drunk before) from Jackson, CA (Pioneer) to Reno in the middle of the night!! Works great!!
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