HUGE mistake involving wife...
#251
08-16-2010, 07:47 PM
Hey Twiggyaz; Probably a lot of guys would pass you and then pull off faking a gas problem just to get a ride with you now that we know. LOL. Not me of course, I am 69 and been married for 51 years to the same woman, and I sure don't want to mess that up. She is still the best thing that ever happened to me.
#253
08-16-2010, 10:03 PM
My wife rided with a dude on a rice rocket and came back 3:14 AM
I waited in the garage, hiding behind my Harley.
I could hear the rice rocket pull up to the driveway entrance and then saw the garage door open.
She took her panties and bra out of her handbag and slipped them on.
Then she straigtened her hair and entered the door into the house.
While this was happening, I noticed a small crack in the welded area of my Harley frame.
I really don't know what to do now, should I replace the frame, or can I have the crack repaired by welding and repainting??? Please help with advice!!!
I waited in the garage, hiding behind my Harley.
I could hear the rice rocket pull up to the driveway entrance and then saw the garage door open.
She took her panties and bra out of her handbag and slipped them on.
Then she straigtened her hair and entered the door into the house.
While this was happening, I noticed a small crack in the welded area of my Harley frame.
I really don't know what to do now, should I replace the frame, or can I have the crack repaired by welding and repainting??? Please help with advice!!!
#254
08-17-2010, 12:11 AM
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I've experienced a situation .. YOU tell me if this is a trust or even a respect issue, now that the "It's an unwritten rule that women don't ride with other women's men" card has been played...
.. We (hubby and I) are at a rally .. staying in a hotel ... whole group of friends hang'n together .. Hubby has had a 'few' (too many to drive) beers .. and I need to go to a grocery store ... but I've had a few beers too. I don't want him to drive me ... I can't drive myself ... but one of our friends (who's wife is also present) is going for a beer run (who hasn't drank at all .. yet) ... Is it wrong for me to hop on his dresser and go and pick up the things I need while he does the same? We have all been friends for many - many years. Come on guys ... RIGHT or COMPLETELY WRONG???
This is a perfect example of what we are talking about here ... no funny business ... no hanky panky ... Not even close! Just sharing a ride.
Do you think this is still disrespectful?
.. We (hubby and I) are at a rally .. staying in a hotel ... whole group of friends hang'n together .. Hubby has had a 'few' (too many to drive) beers .. and I need to go to a grocery store ... but I've had a few beers too. I don't want him to drive me ... I can't drive myself ... but one of our friends (who's wife is also present) is going for a beer run (who hasn't drank at all .. yet) ... Is it wrong for me to hop on his dresser and go and pick up the things I need while he does the same? We have all been friends for many - many years. Come on guys ... RIGHT or COMPLETELY WRONG???
This is a perfect example of what we are talking about here ... no funny business ... no hanky panky ... Not even close! Just sharing a ride.
Do you think this is still disrespectful?
#255
08-17-2010, 12:16 AM
My 'Ol Lady explained it to me in no uncertain terms. Women consider another woman on the back of your 'Scoot' inappropriate because most women consider the riding position their in, legs spread and **** against you, pressed against your back or ***, to be an intimate position and not for anyone but them.
Learned this the hard way.......
Learned this the hard way.......
j/k
#256
08-18-2010, 09:59 PM
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My wife said it was OK if I agree with this.
Last edited by rodethedragon; 08-18-2010 at 10:02 PM.
#258
08-19-2010, 10:36 AM
I asked my wife about this thread. I took a couple of female friends from out of town on rides this summer. Just to see the area from a bike. I live in the desert, it's very scenic.
My wife said she didn't care about other women being on the back as long as she does not believe that I am actually trying to cheat with them.
I think a bad situation for her would be one where I was constantly spending time with some other woman that I had feelings for and was taking her for multiple rides, etc.
Interesting range of responses. Every family is different.
I think we all (husbands and wives) think about sex with people other than the spouse that we've been with for years and years. The test, IMO, is whether you act on it. I believe that it's never worth acting on. Too much trouble.
My wife said she didn't care about other women being on the back as long as she does not believe that I am actually trying to cheat with them.
I think a bad situation for her would be one where I was constantly spending time with some other woman that I had feelings for and was taking her for multiple rides, etc.
Interesting range of responses. Every family is different.
I think we all (husbands and wives) think about sex with people other than the spouse that we've been with for years and years. The test, IMO, is whether you act on it. I believe that it's never worth acting on. Too much trouble.
#259
08-19-2010, 01:06 PM
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Here's a no no in my book. An ex boyfriend emailed me and said...hey...come give me a ride on your new Harley. I emailed back and said...LOL, are you nuts...that's like asking me to come have sex with you...get the F outta here dude!! Not only never...but freaking never!
This is ok. Riding back from a rally, guy breaks down, I stop to help, he needs gas...I ride him to gas station and back.
Seems simple enough to me...but each to their own!
This is ok. Riding back from a rally, guy breaks down, I stop to help, he needs gas...I ride him to gas station and back.
Seems simple enough to me...but each to their own!
Yep, makes sense! Now, would that also work for me if a too-drunk-to-drive girl in a bar asked for a ride home??
