In reading this thread I keep hearing --in the background---the faint noise of a whip cracking, my, my what has the community come to----MAN-UP

 

YES a BIG mistake, Imm a little older so I know better......... GOOD LUCK

 

Duhhh. Yea, you broke the rule of spread legs. The seat has nothin to it, the SEAT is not sacred- its the chick on the back of your bike with her legs spread so wide your @ss fits between them rule- that's the problem. Even if it was just a ride, its the symbolism- the legs spread open with your big *** between them. Thats why dudes dont ride with dudes.

Stop a little too fast and you break the ol' "****-squashed-all-over-your-back" rule. And damn dude, you told her about it? WTF? Do we need to review the "right thing versus the best thing" too?

 

Originally Posted by XKROME
without fail every woman I've been with that got jealous over frivolous BS was doing it because of their own guilt for cheating. now I'm with someone that thinks as long as we are honest with each other and don't have a bunch of silly rules there is no reason to cheat...life is too short for petty jealousies.

It's all these petty rules that make things so difficult and this idea of the pillion having something to do with respect is complete BS. It's like saying if the cage had a bench seat and he picked the woman up he would have the same problem as it is still one seat for 2 people. My wife and I haven't had a problem with this scenario from the first time we read it. We do however find it interesting the number of people that have lost sleep over it or would go to war because of a female riding on the back of hubbies bike. Some people really need to get a life or have a bit of faith in their spouses.

 

First off, you were doing a favor, with the price of gas why not the bike, I'd tell my wife of 13 yrs, let me know when you're done being pi$$ed off and go for a ride. Then again, flowers are not a bad idea.

 

Did something of the same except I was in a strip joint the girl passed out on the floor by me the other girls asked me to take her to her apartment so I did. Not thinking anything of it just trying to be nice, and by not hiding it told my pregnant wife at the time what I did. Needless to say I would never do that again, I am older and wiser now. It sort of sucks just trying to be a nice guy and then get your butt chewed on.. Oh Well
That was 34 years ago and she is still here. Or should I say I am still here.

 

got to spend some time with your first love eh?:d

 

Wow! How dumb are you? Heck I am only married one year and I know better than that...

 

Whether or not I am behind my husband on the bike, the intimacy of being that close to MY husband is NOT something I want another woman sharing.

It's been said here before, it's an understanding between the two of us. If someone wanted a ride, I'm sure he would be asking my opinion before agreeing to it.

 

Question....have you ever had sex with your wife on your bike? That's her turf.