Ladies, in my opinion you all look great helmet hair or not. The big smiles and happy eyes far outshine a small bit of imperfect hair. People that don't ride may not understand. So what. We love you all just the way you are.
Helmet head looks better than wind blown IMO. So ladies don't worry about it. The mear fact that you ride is a huge turn on for most men anyway. besides - we aint looking at your hair - trust me on this one!