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Old 02-29-2008, 11:19 PM
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I did, until I bought her a 2008 Street Bob for Christmas. Now I think she hides it from me.
 
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I guess I pretty lucky in the "scoot" department. My wife is a teacher and whatever she makes is hers. I pay all the bills and she never questions my HD purchases. When I brought the first HD home (01' FXDLI) she said "how much was that damn thing anyway?" I said a little over $4000 (which was the check I wrote and the other was in cash). She said "you're crazy for spending that much money on a motorcycle. But, if you think you will get that much fun out of it, I guess it is okay." Isold my 01'and got anindentical 05'.Other than the three week absence of a bike in the garage until the new one came, she never really noticed I got a new one. She has no interest in my Harley and the tools I have in my shop. I never question the "crap" she is constantly bringing in the house such as pictures, plants, etc. But, after 30+ years of marriage, we don't jump each other for what we spend.
 
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Harley Dude I with ya..."Hell - My wife is on a need to know basis. Problem is she needs to know she pays the cards"
I pay cash....lol
 
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Wife always knows what I spend. I don't hide anything from her and she doesn't hide anything from me. If ya don't have trust in a relationship, why be in it? 22+ years and very happily married...guess I am one of the lucky few the way it looks here.
 
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Mine just knows that it is an expensive hobby. All the rest of the bills are paid. She gives me the "green light" just knowing it makes me happy.
 
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My wife loves to ride almost as much as I. I show her the stuff and where it goes and how much I spent. She loves the bike and it's cool with her.

PS. She loves all the HD clothes. I buy a part, she buys clothes.
 
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My wife hardly ever asks but when she does notice something I play the "Oh I've had that forever" gambit
 
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No. She knows my bike is my passion. She knows when I need to go for a ride, so she tells me to go. When I get back I'm a much better person. I try to save a little money then buy what I want. She doesnt question the outragous service or repair bills.
 
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FatBob01, couldn't agree more! Could we be long lost twins?
 
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ORIGINAL: badwhine

ORIGINAL: RAWHIDE07

I'm guilty,I always tell my wife that the stuff I buy for the Harley is less than it really is,am I the only one?
Ahhhhh- when you choose to lie you are putting you signature on your character. Lie to you wife etc......BAD recipe. I never lie. The truth is ugly, but not as ugly as a lie. Lying--moral choice.
You cannot be married with that BS,

"Don't Ask, Don't Tell", just like the military,

My latest hidden treasure is a Road Glide I just purchased,that I have to break the news about eventually,[sm=icon_sneaky.gif]

I will certainly not mention the motor work I had done, [sm=noooo.gif]
 


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