Get both!! Seriously, I'd go with the RK. If I had to have only one Harley, I'd keep the RK and let the softail go. RK is way more versatile, and comfortable.

 

Funny how many guy's drive the so called "Girls Bike"...... At 6' tall all I had to do is add the mark IV bars from kuryakyn and it was perfect, will be changing the seat next week in MB once I can sit on a few and decide which I like the best.

Oh yeah, this "girls bike" thing is still killing me, out of the first 12 people I can think of
8 have a deluxe all guys,
2have a RK, guy /girl,
2 sporty's both guys.

If you want tohave a vibration when your sitting still buy a road king with the rubber mounted motor, if you want a FAT BOYin full dress buy a Deluxe, the ride on aDeluxe is much smoother and it has far less vibration.

 

You do know that you are talking about two different classes of bikes.?.?. Softail/Touring. IMO completely different rides and feels. Do what I did. I have a Heritage Springer and a Road King Classic. Wife says I need to sell one I am trying, really I am!
Phil