Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
#11
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
I would recommend another MSF course over the Riders Edge program. While the Riders Edge program will teach her to ride, a lot of it is full of Harley propoganda and merchendise pushing. You already have a Harley and probably spend money there. I say go with a weekend MSF course and save your wife from sitting through all of the promotional filler that comes with the Riders Edge program.
BTW, I had never ridden before I took my MSF course and I think that it was a great way to learn. Good luck to her.
BTW, I had never ridden before I took my MSF course and I think that it was a great way to learn. Good luck to her.
#12
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
ORIGINAL: L3ft2
I would love t o get my wife to ride. She has expressed an interest but is hesistant for the same reasons you mentioned. glad to hear that other wives have made the grade from the same starting point.
I would love t o get my wife to ride. She has expressed an interest but is hesistant for the same reasons you mentioned. glad to hear that other wives have made the grade from the same starting point.
#13
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
You are on the right track! My wife and I just returned from a 200 mile ride. She took the MSF course last fall and did great. Like was stated in the post above, tell her not to worry about looking like a dope. The only folks that look dumb in the class are the ones who think they already know it all, hummmm like me!
We bought her an 883L as soon as she passed the class. She does great on it, but the best option might be to buy a cheap metric bike for her to get used to first. My wife is already wanting to trade up to a Deluxe. WTF
Anyway, she only has about 700 miles on the bike now. I'm starting her out slow, no group riding yet, no heavy city traffic.
I say go for it, but take it slow.
FD
We bought her an 883L as soon as she passed the class. She does great on it, but the best option might be to buy a cheap metric bike for her to get used to first. My wife is already wanting to trade up to a Deluxe. WTF
Anyway, she only has about 700 miles on the bike now. I'm starting her out slow, no group riding yet, no heavy city traffic.
I say go for it, but take it slow.
FD
#14
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
ORIGINAL: flakdog
We bought her an 883L as soon as she passed the class. She does great on it, but the best option might be to buy a cheap metric bike for her to get used to first. My wife is already wanting to trade up to a Deluxe. WTF
We bought her an 883L as soon as she passed the class. She does great on it, but the best option might be to buy a cheap metric bike for her to get used to first. My wife is already wanting to trade up to a Deluxe. WTF
Then again if your wife is already talking about moving up maybe you can give us a good deal on her 883 .
#15
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
ORIGINAL: bruef
My wife and I are thinking about getting her her own bike. She's never ridden before (and for that matter has never even driven a manual shift car) so the game plan is for her to take the riders course ata nearbyHD dealership. As one would expect, she's very nervous about this and especially concerned about "looking like a dork" in the class since she has zero experience on the front seat.
I would really appreciate it if some of you folks who have relevant tales of learning to ride as an adult could offer up your stories and/or words of encouragement. Hearing from the gals and/or anyone who has taken the Riders Edge course and subsequently gotten into riding would be especially helpful.
Thanks in advance!
My wife and I are thinking about getting her her own bike. She's never ridden before (and for that matter has never even driven a manual shift car) so the game plan is for her to take the riders course ata nearbyHD dealership. As one would expect, she's very nervous about this and especially concerned about "looking like a dork" in the class since she has zero experience on the front seat.
I would really appreciate it if some of you folks who have relevant tales of learning to ride as an adult could offer up your stories and/or words of encouragement. Hearing from the gals and/or anyone who has taken the Riders Edge course and subsequently gotten into riding would be especially helpful.
Thanks in advance!
She has never driven a standard...AND get this....only learned to ride a bicycle last year.
The course is designed with people who have ZERO riding experience or ability...they start as though you know nothing...so honestly your wife might be in better shape because she doesn't have bad habits to unlearn.
#17
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
I bought my very first bike in 1986 when I was one of Uncle Sam's finest.I bought a brand new 883 and had my roommate ride it back to the base for me since I had NEVER driven one before.We took it to the local high school parking lot where he showed how to ride one.BUT,I had to take a rider training course to be able to get my sticker to enter the base.It was VERY beneficial and was very similar to the MSF course.A rider course is a MUST for any new rider and is not a bad idea as a refresher every so often.
#18
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
I finally decided to take the MSF course at the end of last summer. My husband has been riding since he was sixteen and after years of riding crotch rockets decided it was time to get a harley. (this was two years ago) He had always wanted me to ride my own but I was petrified. Finally last summer a girl at work wanted to learn to ride so we took the MSF course together. My husband immediately bought me a Sportster 883C. I rode it for a bit in the parking lot cause I didn't want to go to the course knowing NOTHING! I too didn't want to look like a dork. I was terrified. Of what I am not sure. Well the girlfriend and I took the course and had an absolutely miserable time. It was a huge class that they split into two groups... I personally felt like as soon as I was grasping something we were moving on to something else. Don't get me wrong the instructors were great and they tried to give you one on one attention if they felt you were struggling, but I was just so miserable. (it rained all weekend which didn't help). Well I failed. I did fine in everything except my timed exercises.. I was too slow. I came home and cried on my husband's shoulder for about 2 hours as he kept trying to console me and tell me I was not the only person to ever fail a motorcycle test. I felt like I had let him down. Any way, I didn't give up. I took the "refresher" course which was amazing and I finally had found the "fun" they kept talking about. There were only about nine of us there and it was great. I passed the second time around with a perfect score.
I was a little worried that I would feel like I was starting all over again this spring because I started so late last year....but that was not the case. I am amazed at how confident I was this year and how comfortable I already am. And you know for how miserable I was the first time around in my MSF course, everytime I ride I can hear the voices of my instructors in my head. It really did help me even though I felt so crappy about everything when it was happening.
This has been an amazing thing for me and my husband. I don't think he has ever been so proud of me for overcoming my fear and riding on my own. It is an incredible feeling when we are out on our bikes together. I will say too that his patients was never ending. He stayed so calm, patient and encouraging with me it was so reasuring. I know some people aren't meant to ride but he knew I could do this and that I just needed to believe I could. He still tells me after every ride how proud he is... and that I look hot on my bike.
Sorry for the long story but I thought it might encourage her. She can PM me if she wants. GOOD LUCK.
I was a little worried that I would feel like I was starting all over again this spring because I started so late last year....but that was not the case. I am amazed at how confident I was this year and how comfortable I already am. And you know for how miserable I was the first time around in my MSF course, everytime I ride I can hear the voices of my instructors in my head. It really did help me even though I felt so crappy about everything when it was happening.
This has been an amazing thing for me and my husband. I don't think he has ever been so proud of me for overcoming my fear and riding on my own. It is an incredible feeling when we are out on our bikes together. I will say too that his patients was never ending. He stayed so calm, patient and encouraging with me it was so reasuring. I know some people aren't meant to ride but he knew I could do this and that I just needed to believe I could. He still tells me after every ride how proud he is... and that I look hot on my bike.
Sorry for the long story but I thought it might encourage her. She can PM me if she wants. GOOD LUCK.
#19
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
I lost my best friend due to a motorcycle crash after owning his first scoot for about 3 hours. At the time I had plenty of experience on dirt bikes and a little on street bikes. I wish I had thought to tell him this. Find her a used manual clutch, four stroke,dirt bike. It doesn't have to be very nice, but anything that has a comfortable engine size for her to get some seat time in an open lot or feild. Once she is comfortable with the dirt bike take her to sign up for theMSF course. It cost quite a bit but is well worth it. Good luck.
I realize that this a Harley Davidson forum but an 883 may be a bit more bike than you may think she needs to start off on. If my wife wanted to learn to ride I would not hesitate to find her a smaller cc honda or yamaha, with the promise of a Harley once she was comfortable with riding.
I realize that this a Harley Davidson forum but an 883 may be a bit more bike than you may think she needs to start off on. If my wife wanted to learn to ride I would not hesitate to find her a smaller cc honda or yamaha, with the promise of a Harley once she was comfortable with riding.
#20
RE: Encouragement & anecdotes wanted for new rider
ORIGINAL: Matrix
I lost my best friend due to a motorcycle crash after owning his first scoot for about 3 hours. At the time I had plenty of experience on dirt bikes and a little on street bikes. I wish I had thought to tell him this. Find her a used manual clutch, four stroke,dirt bike. It doesn't have to be very nice, but anything that has a comfortable engine size for her to get some seat time in an open lot or feild. Once she is comfortable with the dirt bike take her to sign up for theMSF course. It cost quite a bit but is well worth it. Good luck.
I realize that this a Harley Davidson forum but an 883 may be a bit more bike than you may think she needs to start off on. If my wife wanted to learn to ride I would not hesitate to find her a smaller cc honda or yamaha, with the promise of a Harley once she was comfortable with riding.
I lost my best friend due to a motorcycle crash after owning his first scoot for about 3 hours. At the time I had plenty of experience on dirt bikes and a little on street bikes. I wish I had thought to tell him this. Find her a used manual clutch, four stroke,dirt bike. It doesn't have to be very nice, but anything that has a comfortable engine size for her to get some seat time in an open lot or feild. Once she is comfortable with the dirt bike take her to sign up for theMSF course. It cost quite a bit but is well worth it. Good luck.
I realize that this a Harley Davidson forum but an 883 may be a bit more bike than you may think she needs to start off on. If my wife wanted to learn to ride I would not hesitate to find her a smaller cc honda or yamaha, with the promise of a Harley once she was comfortable with riding.