I hated the kickstand on my 99 FXDWG and was not so hot on the aftermarket extensions either, so I fabricated a bracket that clamps into the wire section and allows me to bolt my old rubber shifter on the end and now it is a piece of cake to find and looks like it belongs.

 

I was feeling like an idiot trying to find the damn thing for a while. Then I happened to slide back on the seat a bit and tried it there. Found it with my heel the first time. Now it's cut the engine, slide my tail back a few inches and I catch the baby every time.