Check your battery & ground connections. A little dielectric grease on the relay terminals is a good idea, too.

 

Both good suggestions and one (or both of them) worked. The negative terminal took about 2/3 of a turn, positive took about a 1/3 turn. Put a little grease on the relay terminal at the same time and i havent had a problem starting since.

I had already ordered the push button switch and figured Id at least have it for a back-up. Part came in today, easy install and works as advertised.

 

If there is no push button on the solenoid there has to be a switch someplace to send power to the button

 

Sounds like I had the same problem. Sometimes I had a click when it happened ( like a solenoid click), sometimes nothing. It was under warranty at their time and dealer wouldn't do much because it didn't act up when they had it, even though it was producing an error code. They finally replaced the body control module.